{"id":2391,"date":"2024-08-25T15:05:37","date_gmt":"2024-08-25T15:05:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/magicart-delta.com\/?p=2391"},"modified":"2024-08-25T15:06:53","modified_gmt":"2024-08-25T15:06:53","slug":"%d0%ba%d0%b0%d0%ba-%d1%81%d0%b5-%d0%b2%d1%8a%d0%b7%d0%bf%d0%b8%d1%82%d0%b0%d0%b2%d0%b0-%d0%bc%d1%8a%d0%b6","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/magicart-delta.com\/en\/2024\/08\/25\/\u043a\u0430\u043a-\u0441\u0435-\u0432\u044a\u0437\u043f\u0438\u0442\u0430\u0432\u0430-\u043c\u044a\u0436\/","title":{"rendered":"How is a man raised?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Author: Lilia Boneva<\/strong><\/div>\n
FB station: Blessed by the root<\/b><\/a><\/div>\n
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Today, some women make a child for themselves - a doll, an idol, an idol, and begin to deify it, to educate it, to take care of it, not seeing that in many cases, this idol that they are is a way of life to distract them from themselves and from the problems they have to solve with themselves. But the Woman-Mother has stubbornly and firmly decided not to look at herself, but to be the most dedicated Mother, after all, her child is God himself, who came down to Earth for Her, her Prince, Her Treasure! <\/em><\/div>\n
It never worked out with men, but it's good that God is merciful, so he sent her this little angel! <\/em>She is an absolutely devoted Mother, 1000 percent in the Child, but when her Child is almost gone she falls into an unimaginable hole, her whole life no longer has any meaning. However, this idol gradually begins to hate its Mother, because no Living Soul wants to be turned into an idol, does not want to be limited, closed, possessed. Then the Woman-MegaMother turns and says to her big-little idol - I gave everything for you, and you insulted me, <\/em>and her idol replies, "Mom, you're such a good mother, but why don't you just look into the Abyss within yourself."<\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Ivaylo DobrevSt<\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n
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I assume that the author of this text, Ivaylo Dobrevst, had in mind the type of mothers of sons who we have heard say "I gave birth to the ideal man". My observations are that usually these mothers are women, deeply disappointed with the man next to them, and from there with the entire male half of the world, and they indulge in an all-absorbing maternal care and guardianship, which they call "love" and which looks very much like soft said to be a "disservice" to their son. I have met grandmothers in my practice who are so devoted - usually to their grandchildren, rarely to their granddaughters. They can even completely replace the mother and father in the life of their grandson and become "everything and everything" for him with living parents. And to remain the most significant figure in their lives.<\/div>\n
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The case is also complicated when the male figure is missing in a family configuration, and a boy is raised only by the women in the family - mother, grandmother, aunt, older sister\/s, and everyone revolves around the little boy. This is total a deficiency of male energy and of a male model in the boy's life. The absence of a father and\/or a male figure such as a grandfather, uncle, godfather or close family friend marks a boy's entire life, especially after the age of three.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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And everyone manifests it in a different way already during childhood, especially in the teenage years and it is most visible after the age of 20. And the relationship with the mother, who sacrificed and gave her life to her only son, varies in extremes:<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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